OL Drills

1. Birddog - Run Steps
This is a great warm-up period drill. The offensive linemen all work their initial steps in the run game. These are general steps, not so much play specific. They work first step, then first two, then first three steps. Steps to rep are cut-off left/right, run inside vs. inside technique right/left, run outside vs. outside technique right/left, pull left/right, trap left/right. You can rep anything in the offense at this point.

2. Zone Combo Drill
This is two offensive linemen vs. two players acting as the defensive players. The OL will combo on the defensive lineman while they read the linebacker. If the LB stays backside and fills, the backside offensive lineman comes off for the LB. If the LB slow plays the read, then both OL just continue pushing the DL back into the lap of the LB. If the LB works quickly over the top, then the playside offensive lineman comes off for the LB. You also need to work the slant part of the drill. If the DL slants backside, then the playside OL must come off immediately, get up field for the LB, and not get involved with the DL. If the DL slants playside, then the backside OL must come off immediately, get up field for the LB, and not try to chase the DL.

3. Zone Cylinder Drill
This is two OL vs. two players acting as the defensive players. Both OL must take their proper zone cylinder steps. You can have the LB slow play, fill backside, or quickly get over the top. At the same time you can have the DL slant either way or just try to read the play. The OL must take their steps, get on path, and block the first thing that crosses their faces. They can not chase or get off path at any time.

4. Restart Drill
Two offensive linemen lock their hands into the perfect blocking position but only one hand can be "inside" on the arm pit while the other hand is outside. The offensive linemen can stand as tall as they want or can lower themselves as much as they want. Most players will work on getting into a low position to help their leverage. On the HUT both offensive linemen begin blocking and working to get their outside hand to inside leverage while not losing the inside hand they already have.

On every play there is going to be a split second, right after contact, that a stalemate happens or a moment where both the offensive lineman and the defensive lineman are stopped. The winner will always be the man who is able to get restarted the quickest. The drill also teaches the OL how to keep what leverage (depth or hand position) he earn right away as well as how to reestablish leverage as he is blocking. Run blocking is not just a one or two step thing, OL must continue to work on getting better position as the play continues.

5. Perfect Start Drill
This drill is to teach offensive linemen what position they want to get into right after contact. We want the face mask right in the chest, forward body lean, and both hands have inside leverage while being placed right in the arm pits. The acting defensive player places both hands on the back of the shoulders of the offensive lineman. On the HUT, the offensive lineman must run his feet, bring his hips, and lock out his arm to control the defensive lineman. The defensive lineman will try to pull the shoulders forward so the offensive lineman can't extend and has to really work to bring his hips.

6. Chutes
This is a great drill to teach leverage and staying low. You can run any drill you want while in the chutes. The best ones are initial steps, blocking the hand shield, blocking the big bag, or two on one.

7. Boards
This is a great drill to teach keeping proper distance between your feet so you don't lose your base. You can run any drills you want while on the boards. The best ones are initial steps, blocking the hand shield, blocking the big bag, pulling to trap, or two on one.

8. Bag Warm-Ups: One Foot In Each
Use hand shields or half bags for this. Each OL simply runs through the bags with one foot in between each bag. Do not allow them to turn their hips. You want them going forward with their shoulders, hips, and feet all pointed in the same direction.

9. Bag Warm-ups: Two Feet In Each
Use hand shields or half bags for this. Each OL simply runs through the bags with both feet in between each bag. Do not allow them to turn their hips. You want them going forward with their shoulders, hips, and feet all pointed in the same direction.

10. Bag Warm-ups: Shuffle
Use hand shields or half bags for this. The OL will turn and go through the bags perpendicular to the bags. As they shuffle through you want to see them pick their knees up, not just kick their feet up behind themselves. The OL should be in a good pass set with their hands kept high the entire time during this warm-up.

11. Bag Warm-ups: 2-Over-1
Use hand shields or half bags for this. The OL will turn and go through the bags perpendicular to the bags. As they shuffle through you want to see them pick their knees up and stick the balls of their feet into the ground, not just kicking their feet up behind themselves or just sticking the toe of their shoes into the ground. They shuffle over two bags, then back one, and repeat till done.

12. Bag Warm-ups: Lead Cross
Use hand shields or half bags for this. The OL will turn and go through the bags perpendicular to the bags. The offensive linemen will need to build up a little speed before entering the bags for this drill. If moving to their right, they reach with their right foot into the first hole between the bags, cross over with their left foot into the next hole between the bags, and repeat until done. You have to emphasize them keeping their hips and shoulders facing forward and not turning their hips so they can simply run through the bags. As they cross over they have to really work on picking up the knee so they don't hit any bags.

13. Double Team Drill
This is done with two offensive linemen and one acting as a defensive lineman. On HUT the two offensive linemen must come together, hip to hip, and not allow any space between them. The OL will continue to drive the DL off of the ball until the drill is done. They should not allow the DL to split them. Don't allow the OL to just fall over the top of the DL.

14. One-Knee
The offensive linemen each put one knee down on the ground (you will do this drill to both sides but you want everybody to start the same way). The defender will hover over them with a hand shield, or you can use a leverage sled. On HUT, the OL will explode into the defender/sled. Driving off of their up foot and then stepping with their foot which had the knee on the ground. They then need to continue to drive, bring their hips, and lock out their arms. This is a great drill to teach proper hip explosion. In almost every play the OL will take at least one step without making contact. This drill teaches how to make proper comeback while bringing the hips and locking out. If the OL doesn't bring his hips then he will never lift the sled or bag because it will simply collapse straight back.

15. Explosion Drill: Six Points
The offensive lineman is in a six-point stance (feet, knees, and hands on the ground). You want the OL to be rocked back in his six-point stance to the point where his butt is almost on his heels. On the HUT the OL explodes into the bag/sled. The hands must extend and you should see the hips thrust out (eventually down into the ground) and the chest should be up. The OL will finish this drill face down on the ground fully extended.

16. Explosion Drill: Four Point
The offensive lineman is in a four-point stance (feet and hands on the ground). You want the OL to be rocked back in the stance as must as possible. On the HUT the OL explodes into the bag/sled. You want to see the hands extended, chest out, and the hips being thrust out (eventually down into the ground). The OL will finish this drill face down on the ground fully extended. This is not a "bring your feet drill", but instead is simply an explosion drill.

17. Explosion Drill: Two Point
The offensive lineman is in a two-point stance (feet on the ground only). On the HUT the OL will explode into the bag/sled. Now the OL must bring his feet and continue to block after the initial explosion.

18. Explosion Drill: Both Knees-Hands Only
To teach proper hand placement/explosion, you can have the OL put both knees down on the ground. You want the OL to be rocked back with their butts on their heels. The hands should be placed on the thighs. On the HUT, the OL must explode with their hands while bringing their hips and keeping their chest out and up. As soon as they explode they should immediately reload. This is a rapid fire drill where you can get several reps in a very short span of time.

19. Wax On/Wax Off
The offensive lineman will get into a perfect pass pro position with both hands being placed in the arm pits with inside positioning. On the HUT, the defender will knock the hands off (either one hand at a time or both hands). The defender should work on knocking the hands up, down, or across. Every time the hand(s) are knocked away the offensive lineman must replace his hands. The way to replace is coming from underneath up into the arm pit. The OL makes a semicircle motion each time to replace his hands.

20. Push-Push-Pull
The offensive linemen will get into a perfect pass protection position. They will have both hands inside leverage, arms almost locked out, chest out, head back, and a good bend in their knees. The defender will place both hands on the top of the shoulder pads. The defender will then push on the offensive lineman with a bull rush and will suddenly pull the OL back towards to LOS. The OL will have to sink his hips to stopped from being pulled forward.

21. Pull Cut Off With Big Bag
To teach the proper way to do the backside cut-off, you can use the big blocking bag as a landmark to create the proper steps. The bag needs to be set up at least back on the hip or maybe even deeper to over exaggerate the proper steps. The offensive lineman must open, pull for depth, drop the inside shoulder, rip through the thigh, and pull the backside shoulder through.

22. Pull Cut Off With Hand Shield
The other way to teach the proper way to do the backside cut-off, you have somebody hold the hand shield. Now, the defender should be inside and crowding the LOS. On the snap the man holding the hand shield will try to get the shield on the shoulder pads of the OL, pushing him down, as well as moving up field and inside. The OL must really work hard to continue to give ground and depth to gain leverage. Once leverage is obtained, drop the inside shoulder, rip through the thigh, and pull the backside shoulder through.

23. Pass Pro: Two-On-Two
This is an unscripted two-on-two pass protection drill. The 2 OL will start in a perfect pass pro stance while the 2 defenders start standing up as well. The defenders can twist, bull, swim, spin, or whatever they want to during the rush. The most important thing is that defenders just continue to move and continue to try and get up the field towards the QB. One of the great aspects of this drill is the chaos which it creates for the 2 OL. They will probably have multiple switches if they stay on the same level and then will also have to track a few times to stay with the looper once they are no longer on the same level. This drill can become so hectic that once the OL actually go into a normal 11-on-11 setting the pass protection seems slow and easy.

24. Pass Pro: Famous Drill
This is one of the best pass protection drills you can possibly have. It will be one OL against one defender. This should be done in a very small space. The coach needs to keep in mind what position the OL plays and give the proper spot for the QB to stand. There are no helmets allowed in this drill and the only rush which can not be used by the defender is the bull rush. The OL starts in a good stance and then will pop up into a perfect pass pro position to start the drill. Once the OL has popped up, the defender starts rushing. This drill really helps to reinforce the fact that you should not use your head and shoulders during pass protections. The OL must work to get his hands on the defender, keep his head back, keep his shoulders back, and counter whatever moves the defender makes. The entire time the OL must keep the proper relationship with his feet and either play flat to the inside or give ground at a 45 to the outside.

25. Pass Pro: Twist Drill
This is a two-on-two drill done in a relatively small space. The coach will stand behind the offensive linemen and direct which way he wants the twist to happen. Every so often the coach simply needs to have the DL both slant in the same direction or simply rush. The most important part of the drill is for the two OL to learn how to properly handle the twist. First, both OL need to stay on the same imaginary plane so they are even with each other. When the drive man (defender who is slanting towards another DL) begins to drive, the lineman blocking him must assume this is simply a normal directional pass rush. When the looper (the defender who is going to twist behind the other DL) is identified, then the OL know it is a twist. The lineman who is blocking the looper will call "twist" and must turn to drive block the drive man. The combination of the twist call and the drive block on the drive man will push the other lineman off so he can play the looper. The man now playing the looper needs to push off slightly to get in a better position to play the looper. The reason you drive block the drive man is so you can constrict the possible opening for the looper to run through.

26. Cut Drill With Big Bag
Every offensive lineman must know how to cut on the LOS, cut on a pull, or cut in the open field, but you do not want to work cutting drills on your own players because of the risk of injury. You set the bag up in one of three positions. To work the cut drill on the line, place the big bag right up in front of the OL. To work the cut drill on a pull, place the big bag where the DL would be on a trap or counter play. To work the open field cut, you have to place the bag down the field so the OL has to run to the bag. The OL wants to throw the arm through the knee, drive the shoulder through the thigh, and then roll forward so they keep coming at the defender. You don't just lay down in front of a defender, you must physically attack him to put him on the ground. The cut should be used as a change up block and can only be used against defenders who are running. If you try to cut a defender who is standing still, then they have a better chance avoid the cut.

27. Quick Set
This is a drill which can be used as a warm-up prior to practice or during an individual period. On the command, the offensive linemen will all pop up out of their regular stance into a perfect pass pro position. The coach can either work on a ton of reps or can force the OL to sit in the good stance. If the coach makes the OL sit in the stance, then you have to watch to see if the OL begins to raise up or if they can properly sit down deep in the their stance and stay in that position. The reason this is important is because if they can't stay in the proper pass pro position, then they will start to stand-up during a play because they get tired. This also creates a mentality in the minds of the OL that they can sit in that stance forever.

28. Quick Set And Move
This is a drill which can be used as a warm-up prior to practice or during an individual period. On the command, the linemen will all pop up out of their regular stance into a perfect pass pro position. At any point the coach can direct the OL to move by simply pointing in that direction. As long as the coach continues to point in a direction the OL continues to move that way. So, you can keep them moving one direction for a long time or you can change directions quickly to force the OL to continue to move. The other aspect of this drill is to make sure the OL are using their arms. Whichever direction the OL moves to, that arm should be locked out while the opposite hand should be held tight to the body and ready to deliver the blow when the defender changes direction.

29. Pass Pro Counter Drill
Every OL needs to know how to counter the most popular pass rush techniques and this is a drill which helps to not only teach those counters but to get a ton of reps at them. First, lets go through the drill then we will go through the counters.

Drill Part I: All of the OL pair up with one side being the offensive player and the other side being the defender. The coach will stand behind the OL and will direct the defenders on what move to make and which direction to make it. The coach should do the move on air and then point in the direction he wants the defenders to go.

Here are the counters:
Bull Rush: As the offensive linemen get bull rushed, they must eventually drop their outside foot and exaggerated distance, sink their hips, lock out the arms, push the chest forward, and get the head back. This will help to change the leverage and should also rock the shoulder pads of the defender back into his throat.

Swim: As the defender begins to swim, the offensive lineman first tries to lock out the swim side arm and then has to use their opposite hand (if the defender swims to the right, the OL uses his left hand) to deliver a blow. There are two places to deliver the blow. The first is up into the arm pit of the swim man to knock him sideways and possibly turn his shoulders to the sideline. The second place to deliver a blow is just below the ribs. A shot to the ribs will hurt but a shot just below the ribs can double over a defender.

Rip: As the defender begins to rip, the offensive lineman first tries to lock out the rip side arm and then has to use the opposite hand (if the defender rips right, then use the left hand) to deliver the blow. The blow should be down on the hip of the defender. You can turn the defender's hips towards the sideline without much of a shot. The hand stays on the hip and continues to move the defender. At some point the defender will then use a second move.

Spin: As the defender begins to swim, the offensive lineman must sit back, not get over extended, and fall forward. The OL must deliver a blow to the shoulders with the spin side hand and then continue to force the defender to spin in place. As the defender finishes the spin, the OL must deliver a BIG blow to the defender. Many times the best defense against the spin is to step off and away from the spin man so he can't use the OL’s body to spin off of.

Drill Part II: The next part of this drill is to use double moves. The coach tells the defenders the first move and direction and then the second move and direction. The important part of this drill is the fact that the OL must not only be able to stop the first move, but be ready for the counter move while not getting over extended stopping the first move.

30. Two-On-One
This is done with one offensive lineman, a defender holding a big bag or hand shield, and a second defender bracing the man holding the bag. The OL can either start in a perfect running blocking position or come out of his 3-point stance. On the first HUT the OL begins blocking while both defenders are providing resistance. On the second HUT, the second defender will step out of the way and no long provide resistance while the first defender (who is holding the bag or hand shield) will also provide a little less resistance. When this happens the OL will immediately begin having much more success and this is where the drill really becomes useful. The OL must run his feet, lock out his arm, get his hips underneath him, and finish the block. The drill teaches OL how to react once they start having success on blocks. Too many times an OL comes off of the line, makes good contact, but as the defender gives ground the OL is unable to finish the block because he doesn’t know how to bring his feet and get his hips underneath him.

31. Machine Gun
All the offensive linemen are lined up in a single line (everybody in the line will be called a defender from this point on). The first OL steps out, turns towards the group, goes into a 3-point stance and then pops up into a perfect pass pro stance. Once in the pass pro stance he begins to shuffle down the line. As he gets directly in front of a defender, the defender will simply step at the OL or fall forward. The OL must deliver enough of a shot to knock the defender back. Then, the OL will shuffle down to the next defender while staying in his perfect pass pro stance and repeat the drill until he reaches the end of the line. Once he gets to the end of the line he then turns around and joins the line. This drill should initially be done very slowly to really work on staying in a good stance and delivering a great shot. Eventually, the speed must pick up until it becomes almost a frenzy so that the OL can move, stay in a good stance, and deliver a blow at simulate game speed.

32. Mini-Machine Gun
The offensive linemen must pair up so you can get more reps for this drill. The defender will be perpendicular to the OL. The OL will be in a perfect pass pro stance and must shuffle to stay next to the defender as the defender moves. Every so often the defender will turn and step at the OL. At that point, the OL must deliver a blow to the chest of the defender. You can do this as long as you want. When done, the defender and OL simply switch responsibilities. The coach can control the speed of the drill by telling everybody what he wants at the start. The other variation is to allow the defender to simply change the speed he moves during the drill.

33. Mini-Machine Gun From The Side
The offensive linemen must pair up so they can get more reps for this drill. The defender will be perpendicular to the OL. The OL will be in a perfect pass pro stance and must shuffle to stay next to the defender as the defender moves. Every so often the defender will lean in at the OL. At that point, the OL must deliver a blow to the edge of the shoulder pads of the defender. You can do this as long as you want. When done, the defender and OL simply switch responsibilities. The coach can control the speed of the drill by telling everybody what he wants at the start. The other variation is to allow the defender to simply change the speed he moves during the drill. This is a great drill to teach/reinforce OL to keep their hands very, very tight. If a lineman keeps his hands tight, he will deliver a more concentrated blow, won’t have the chance of missing a defender, and can keep inside leverage as the defender continues to come at him.

Defining success

John Wooden- "Success is the peace of mind which is a direct result of self-satisfaction in knowing you did your best to become the best you are capable of becoming"

What do you do to achieve it?
Do the little things right (finishing drills, showing up on time, turning in homework on time and complete etc).

Teach them how to be good people (please and thank you, yes sir no sir, caring for others and theirselves, DOING THE RIGHT THING)

and lastly teach them how to work together to accomplish a common goal.

Success is a by-product of doing things right, and doing things right is a choice.

What is your definition of a man?

Went to a clinic this weekend and a very successful coach, who I know and like, was talking about philosophy. He said that his goal as a football coach was to build a man, everything else would take care of itself. His definition of a man was... doing something for others/ to be of service to others. Some of the other things that he mentioned was that in his weightroom, they are building enthusiasm not "freakish" people. They lift for 1 hour a day but five days a week. He said he wanted them there 5 days a week because a man works 5 days a week and is a parent everyday of the week. Thoughts?

• A man does what needs to be done, when it needs to be done, as well as it can be done, and he does it that way all the time.
• Honest, hard-working. And able to give yourself an honest look and change negative thoughts/actions that can keep you from being the best (person, coach, dad, husband, employee, employer, etc.) you can be.
• Someone who can take responsibility for their actions
o Someone who will do what is necessary and possible to get better
o Someone who has respect for their life and the lives of others
o Someone who understands that life is more about "you" than it is about "me."
• I really appreciate what that coach offers as a definition of a man. There are a lot of boys in our culture of coaching, but when it comes to manhood, in my opinion, it has little to do with age.
o Manhood starts when you realize that life, and how it should be lived, is not about you, or for you. It doesn't mean you don't care for yourself and the needs you have, it means that you understand that your God-given talents and gifts exist for those you have the privilege of knowing and serving.
o I may aspire to be the best at something, but the only reason it would really matter is for the one benefitting from what I do. If I want to the be best QB coach, I don't get a certificate, or a trophy, if there was such a thing, I just get another opportunity to ask myself the hard question that a real man must answer every day of his life.
o Is it worth it to get up one more time and go do what I must for someone else?(ie. a kid, a business, a school, a wife, a child, etc.) And by the way, the chances are, you won't be thanked; you might get paid, but it won't be enough; you will likely experience some level of physical, or mental, suffering as you do it, and you will probably go unnoticed in the effort. But, you still must decide...is it still worth it? Oh, and one other thing, you will likely have to give up something you really want to be doing instead of that thing you are deciding to do, and you will most assuredly have to keep making that decision in that context, every day, for the rest of your life...still worth it?
o This is by no means an easy, or readily accepted, thought process by males in our society, as they often don't get past the first question, much less down to the "rest of your life" thing - the hard ones, but those we respect the most as men in our lives, have made it to the bottom of that decision tree, and do so on a regular basis in their lives.
o They have cracked the code on the truth that there is no greater fulfillment in life for a man, than to give themselves away for something bigger, and more important, than themselves.
o This is the core truth that remains unchanged in the greatness of this game, and in the greatness of a man. There is no sport, in my opinion, where this fact of, its not about you, is more readily tested, than between the lines in every facet of practice, preparation, and on game day.
o Forget what the sportswriters attempt to do in drawing attention to one man over another, it still comes down to whether or not you, as a player or coach, are willing to do what is necessary to make sure that the guy next to you succeeds.
o The scores, stats, and records have slowly placed an ever thickening plaque of self promotion in the arteries of the heart of the game, and like the body part, it can lead to diseases of every kind in the adult stages of life(pros), but at the levels where youth is still learning to crack the code of what matters most, there are still those epiphanal experiences we get to enjoy as coaches, when you see the corners of a kid's mouth rise in a knowing smile, and he understands what must be done - he has to give more, and he decides he is okay with that.
o The most depressing part of this process is seeing how many kids are missing the value of this kind of selflessness, playing the game their entire career thinking that talent is actually what makes a man great, never realizing that all that talent really does is make a man famous, and those are two entirely different concepts. Greatness is imputed to someone by others, because they know the man, fame is when people know of the man.
o Fame is easy, greatness requires suffering. The sacrifice through self-denial of a kind that doesn't even know it is denying itself. That kind of pure determination and love in a man's heart that would not consider himself to matter in the decision being made. It only matters who is being helped, and where we are helping them go. This is the kind of manhood that when it is demonstrated on behalf of another, that man who is the recipient of that service will often break down and not be able to finish his testimonial. Why? Because he knows that the man that served him, is the better man, and it is an honor to have had the privilege of his service.
o This is what makes the military what it is, and it is what makes football the greatest game. Men of varying background and color, decide to come together, on behalf of one another, to do something great for each other. The game, when that happens, ceases to be a game, but rather a conduit to the future of what the potential of life can be, when men decide to put away what matters most to them, and devote themselves to improvement of those around them.
o The game will end, but that is just the beginning for the men we are building. If they don't crack the code on this now, they will end up missing what they are here for in their lives. We know where that leads...bad marriages, parents who are nightmares for coaches of the next generation, selfish kids who cannot understand why you won't give them what they haven't earned...and the list goes on.
o Manhood is advanced citizenship in life, and it is not for the faint of heart. There is no 3-a-day practice season I ever endured that can come close to the daily decisions I have to make about my willingness to serve my wife, children, coaches, staff, kids, and basically everyone I meet, and I am afraid that true manhood eludes me on a regular basis, no matter how much I desire to be a better man.
o Maybe I need to don a helmet, and get into a little blitz pickup session as a QB to remind myself that despite the hits I am going to take, I can, and must, get that ball out of my hand. I will never forget how helpful those sessions were in reminding me of my need to put aside my self preservation. Nothing like a little smack in the mouth to remind you what life can be like, and the need to get up and go again.
o I love football...but as a man, I have learned that if I am to truly benefit from what this game wants to teach me, I must learn to move on from my love for this game, to a willingness to love the guys I play with more than I love myself.
• There are a lot of adult guys that still are not a man. i will say that i was one of those until i had my children and then your priorities change and you realize what you have been doing was not important to life. You become selfless and you look to help others and become more responsible. doing right for others
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• R = Respectful to others.
o E = Not afraid to show his Emotions.
o A = Equally Affectionate & Appreciative to his family.
o L = Listen with intent to his wife and kids.
o M = Well Mannered in all life's settings.
o E = Earning his own way through life is paramount.
o N = Neatness, for him everything has a place.
• IF
o If you can keep your head when all about you
o Are losing theirs and blaming it on you,
o If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you
o But make allowance for their doubting too,
o If you can wait and not be tired by waiting,
o Or being lied about, don't deal in lies,
o Or being hated, don't give way to hating,
o And yet don't look too good, nor talk too wise:
o If you can dream--and not make dreams your master,
o If you can think--and not make thoughts your aim;
o If you can meet with Triumph and Disaster
o And treat those two impostors just the same;
o If you can bear to hear the truth you've spoken
o Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools,
o Or watch the things you gave your life to, broken,
o And stoop and build 'em up with worn-out tools:
o If you can make one heap of all your winnings
o And risk it all on one turn of pitch-and-toss,
o And lose, and start again at your beginnings
o And never breath a word about your loss;
o If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew
o To serve your turn long after they are gone,
o And so hold on when there is nothing in you
o Except the Will which says to them: "Hold on!"
o If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue,
o Or walk with kings--nor lose the common touch,
o If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you;
o If all men count with you, but none too much,
o If you can fill the unforgiving minute
o With sixty seconds' worth of distance run,
o Yours is the Earth and everything that's in it,
o And--which is more--you'll be a Man, my son!
o --Rudyard Kipling
• So, Robert Lewis decided to lay out his Four Marks of a Real Man: His masculinity is based on faith, not flesh. In short they are:
o A Real Man rejects passivity.
o A Real Man accepts responsibility
o A Real Man leads courageously
o A Real Man expects the greater reward.
• Don’t Quit!
o When things go wrong, as they sometimes will,
o when the road you’re trudging seems all uphill,
o When the funds are low and the debts are high,
o And you want to smile, but you have to sigh,
o When care is pressing you down a bit,
o Rest, if you must, but do not quit.
o Life is queer with its twists and turns,
o As every one of us sometimes learns,
o And many a failure turns about,
o When he might have won had he stuck it out;
o Don’t give up though the pace seems slow—
o You may succeed with another blow.
o Often the goal is nearer than,
o It seems to a faint and faltering man,
o Often the struggler has given up,
o When he might have captured the victor’s cup,
o And he learned too late when the night slipped down,
o How close he was to the golden crown.
o Success is failure turned inside out—
o The silver tint of the clouds of doubt,
o And you never can tell how close you are,
o It may be near when it seems so far,
o So stick to the fight when you’re hardest hit—
o It’s when things seem worst that you must not quit.
• I think many of you have listed many traits a "real man" might well have and/or need. Good question and good answers. But I think you could reasonably say: "I can't define a "real man", but I know it when I see it." Certainly you can list traits, but are they all always neccessary other than having the proper plumbing? Do real men come in many forms?
• A male with peace of mind and confidence to go about his business and in a gentlemanly fashion. Mostly I think being a man is about peace of mind, though. I don't believe age has anything to do with being a man (my favorite book is Ender's Game and in that book Ender and the other characters were definitely not normal children) but there's a reason why I can't consider most teenagers to be men: most have a lot of maturing to do and are a little fragile emotionally (no peace of mind).